Before We Say I Do
A 12-Week Faith-Based Pre-Marital Counseling Program for Intending Couples
Because love alone isn't enough. Wisdom, clarity, and shared vision are essential for a lasting union.
More Than a Ceremony—A Covenant
Marriage is more than a ceremony—it's a lifelong covenant that demands emotional preparedness, spiritual maturity, psychological awareness, and practical skills.
This 12-week structured pre-marital counseling experience provides intending couples with the tools, insights, and healing needed to enter marriage whole, aware, and aligned. Designed by seasoned Christian counselors, this journey isn't just informative—it's transformative.
"It's not just about planning your wedding — it's about preparing your foundation."
What Makes This Different?
We go beyond surface-level advice. Our approach integrates proven therapeutic methods with biblical wisdom.
Biblical Foundation & Christian Worldview
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Attachment Style Exploration
Cognitive Behavioral Counseling Techniques
Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE) Mapping
Couples Conflict Resolution Models
Spiritual Compatibility Assessment
Core Topics Covered
12 comprehensive sessions covering every aspect of marriage preparation
Understanding Covenant, Not Just Contract
The spiritual, emotional, and legal significance of Christian marriage.
Personality, Trauma & Temperament Compatibility
How your past and wiring affect your union.
Sexual Integrity, Intimacy & Expectations
Conversations on purity, healing, body image, and creating a safe space for physical bonding.
Financial Transparency & Money Management
Building a joint financial vision, dealing with debts, giving, saving, and budgeting together.
Family Systems & In-Law Relationships
Managing boundaries, honor, and generational interference with wisdom.
Purpose, Calling & Vision Alignment
Merging your divine assignments into one powerful journey.
Emotional Intelligence & Conflict Resolution
How to fight fair, communicate with clarity, and recover well.
Sexual History, Healing, and Future Desires
Dealing with shame, freedom, and truth in your sexual journey.
Spiritual Leadership & Submission
Understanding roles, balance, and God's model for oneness.
Communication Patterns & Love Languages
Speaking love and listening with your whole heart.
Setting Boundaries & Building Healthy Friendships
Guarding your union from spiritual and emotional drift.
Preparing for Change: From Me to We
Unpacking the emotional, practical, and mental shift marriage requires.
Why This Matters
Too many couples enter marriage unaware, unprepared, and unequipped.
This counseling experience will provide:
Emotional Clarity
Understanding your emotional patterns and triggers
Tools for Sustainable Intimacy
Building deep connection that lasts a lifetime
A Shared Vision for Life, Love, and Purpose
Aligning your dreams and calling as one
Healing from the Past
Addressing wounds that could affect your marriage
Practical Readiness for the Future
Real-world skills for navigating married life
Your Investment
Prepare not just for a wedding — but a lifetime
Complete 12-week pre-marital counseling program
Payment Information
Begin your journey with intention and wisdom
Bank Details
Account Numbers
This is your chance to begin marriage with intention, wisdom, and wholeness.
Ready to prepare not just for a wedding — but a lifetime?